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Respect

When people bug you so much to the point where it is absolutely none of their business completely drives me crazy. I feel suffocated, is how I describe it. 

Lately, I've had things to deal with things on a personal level lets call it "family issues" and you just don't want to explain yourself to anyone what is going on because hey it is N O N  E   O F   Y O U R B U S I N E S S. But you know people "genuinely" want to make sure you are "Ok". After when you have told them you are "ok" and need space to sort things out. But... no they think giving space to you is still asking you things every few days... Then you cop it from those people saying that they are worried and assume the worst has happen. I mean "No news is good news right?"  Worse they even try and ask your partner behind your back, and they expect your partner to respond to them when they have absolutely no right in asking him and trying to get him involved, and in conversation again they want to shift it that he is also at fault I asked for space and respect that and give me that time. I can barely catch up with work, life, family, time for myself. I seperate all of this so I can focus on one thing at a time. Sometimes they get muddled up and cause issues and dramas. But some people just don't understand.  Whatever you explain to these people they will twist and turn your words, and still completely think it is your fault for "ignoring" them.  They assume the worst like someone has died or you have broken up with your partner, wow so much doubt in me right... thinking I've messed up my relationship gee thanks for your support... Even worse.... stalk you on Facebook seeing you respond to other people, Jealous much? 

You end up getting a nasty reply from them where they insult you about your profession and saying that because you are a nurse you should be empathetic in this situation and see it from "their perspective"  . But  hang on you are not a 24/7 nurse you are human too. 
Look around you, the whole world doesn't evolve around you. Don't get so upset over spilt milk, and say awful things about someones profession and that "you expect more respect". How rude of you to say that. But you will never know who you are as a person because you never put yourselves in the other person's shoes. 

These type of people will never be satisfied whatever answer you give them or how you treat them.  They continue to interrogate. You don't need to explain to them about what is going on with your life they are just being sticky beaks. It is your life and your choice on how you live it. They don't deserve to know. Just remember there are always these type of people who make it sound like every thing is your fault for "ignoring" them. But hey if that's how they want to put it that should be fine with you, and fine with me. Don't let them get to you continue to stand up for yourself, sometimes there is no reason to explain it to them... they will never understand. People can be crazy obsessed with your life, because your life is so much more interesting... 

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