Skip to main content

shut up and listen

Today was the last day of work and now I'm on annual leave! :D yay! So I was hoping today will go all smooth without any hiccups along the way. But I hate to admit every time when I need to handover it is always nerve wrecking to find out who takes over from you. There are some people that are rude, or try and talk down on you. I'm not going to name names. While I was trying to lighten up their work load for the afternoon, I decided to do every thing for one person first and then move on to the next person to complete the days task after my lunch break. However, this person was trying to nit pick at everything that I did. I was feeling quite annoyed, it is very obvious to the human eye that I  was busy trying to finish my task, and that task is quite a process to complete, so obviously the task for the other person cannot be done on the exact hour. After lunch I come back to help with the 2nd task I need to do and whilst doing that particular task, that person will not take my advice, because she believes that her way  is the correct way to do it, however her way was incorrect. So i decided to just leave it alone. I was in no mood to argue with her. Next is reading and analysing,  she has read something incorrectly, and so I explained to her how to read the data, but she will not listen and think she is correct and was trying to prove a point; but then she realised that was incorrect. But,  I know she does not want to take it into consideration in what I had taught her. I know for a fact that she is taking some subjects, but it has got to the point that she thinks she knows every thing and is too over confident. I know one day karma will get her and there will be a time where she will be in trouble

I believe that everyone should listen to each other on what they have to say and not walk over each other with their own ego, otherwise how can you listen and learn from others?

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

sick again....

Gosh are you fricken kidding me throat infection! I just recovered from 2 weeks of flu and now have a throat infection. WTF is wrong with me. I went back to work 1 week on day shifts and changed to night shift, maybe my body was like screw you on being on night shifts. I started to get a really sore throat at work on the night when I was super busy! I didn't think much of it but then when i woke up from my nap it was sooo painful that I had to go to the doctors to get it checked out because I saw there was puss around my throat I thought it was tonsillitis but the doctor says it hasn't quite reached the tonsils yet? strange... but omg it's disgusting but awesome to see it. So I can't go to work which really sucks, I have no money... I used up all my sick leave and cannot have my annual leave hrs replace my sick leave hours. sigh* I've been sick so many times this year it's ridiculous! Maybe I'm over working myself and haven't had any leave since april/m...
Post a Comment
Read more

he is coming home soon :)

When you are in a long distance relationship, you really do reflect on how you have coped as an individual. I am just so glad that I've been working 6 days straight because that has kept me busy, and going to the gym as well to kill time instead of waiting in front of the laptop watching drama all day and feel so emo about him not being home. I am grateful that we have awesome technology these days, that I am able to see and talk to him over the phone/internet. People ask how can you do this how can you survive? To be honest it is difficult. The time difference is 2 hrs apart, not that much but putting our work in place it is hard to balance because you may need to sacrifice a few hrs of your sleep time, but it is totally worth it. You have to be honest, trust and communicate with one another. I am just glad that we both are faithful to one another. honesty and trust is a big issue because when your partner is overseas to them it feels like they are in holiday mode and away from ...
Post a Comment
Read more

remember stick and stones break your bones but words will never hurt me.

New Zealand is a beautiful country i loved every moment of it that i could share it with Mr R. Even with his parents were there... my holiday turned into "slavery"  Working a whole year with no annual leave. I was already burning out and was looking forward to a nice and relaxing holiday... however it was not the type of relaxing holiday I wanted. I organised to go to places, made bookings that was really difficult to get, made breakfast, cooked dinner in New Zealand. This was not appreciated. I had a feeling why and I knew the reason why after dropping Mr R and his parents at the airport. While I was waiting for Mr R, there was so much I wanted to say to him. But his parents beat me to it... Mr R told me everything of what they have said. Saying brutal and hurtful things about me made me so angry, frustrated and very upset. I've never been so mistreated in my life. I felt like a slave a very low and stupid slave. I don't think anyone should ever be treated this way....
Post a Comment
Read more