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2018

It's going to be a crazy year this year. Each year I say I will blog more.. but that never really happens. I want to find inspiration to blog and talk about life, my travel adventures and about things that we were never taught in school that is relevant that I have experienced so far. I will find the inspiration to write something interesting. 

Alright so this year Mr R is moving to Tasmania. I am so proud of him it has not been an easy journey for him. But being able to find a job that he actually loves i'm really proud of him! We both have been through thick and thin. I just feel very blessed to have some one who is so motivated with life to achieve things. We encourage each other in many ways which I never thought will actually last. But he has proved me wrong. He is my rock and I am his.

There is so much to do. Have to help pack and move my things back home now, and help pack Mr R's things for his move. January and February is going to be a busy 2 months. We are headed off to Hong Kong, Thailand- Bangkok and Krabi. When we come back and after a couple of days we will be catching a ferry to Tasmania. It will be interesting. I suffer airplane sickness I'll probably be sick on the spirit of Tasmania as well. 

Maybe through my travel adventures this year. Who knows what will happen. They say people change through travelling by themselves and with their partner. At least there will be inspiration and more interesting things to write in this blog. 

Time to stop rambling and get back to work. 

- Rambling thoughts

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